Well, I've come to the final conclusion that I'm not going to rely on unreliable people anymore. I have the right to fire people from my life. I need to put trust in myself and in God that together we can take care of everything.
Too long in my life I've stayed in unhealthy and unbalanced relationships to meet my own needs. I must stop letting people skate by and be protected by me. I never let anyone suffer their consequences and cover for them. Even with my husband I protect him from being a adult by doing everything for him. I've let him take advantage of me for too long and I'm done. This doesn't mean not loving him but this also means not protecting him from himself and his own consequences.
I need to make sure that I'm happy no matter what he does or doesn't do. I need to make sure that my own needs are met and my kids are taken care of above all else.
And if you are wondering, yes, he is still at his mother's house by his own wishes.
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