Well I guess that I spoke too soon that he was done playing. The computer came back yesterday and then he took the debit card from my purse and purchased a month to play... WITHOUT permission. So now he we go again and this time I don't have the money to refile the divorce papers. So now it looks like it's up to me to find my own entertainment for the next month since he won't be talking to me or doing anything with me. Back to hell and this time I'm not going to take it lying down.
I'm not going to give him the chance to be the one to ignore me first.... I WILL find my own entertainment! Check back for updates as we all know this is going to be ALL down hill from here.
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PS-this is the chick that wrote about her hubby and Second Life addiction to you earlier in the year. Stay strong, but don't stay in the situation just to be right. Sometimes to be the bigger person just means to walk away. Don't let his guilt trips hold you hostage as it's all just another aspect of gaming to him. Everyday you repeat yourself and stay means nothing more to him than that he won the pretend battle with you and gets to game more. You will always be the loser when dealing with a gamer becuase only they can save/change themselves. I pray day 365 brings you the clarity you need to journal about more important things, like how much better life is without him in it. Sorry if this seems harsh but at some point you have to save yourself/kids. Do you really want to spend another X-mas like last year??? If so, please invest more time into the why of that answer as that speaks volumes on what your still doing in this horrible situation!!! I know you & your kids deserve more and only you can provide that at this point.
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