Day 225 : Comments that don't help

I logged onto my blog to post a update and check comments but all I find are comments from a lady too scared to start her own blog and have her husband see it. I don't think that posting negative comments and calling me names is getting any of us anywhere. Support is what we are here for. Understand that we all have our reasons of why we stay and why we love these people.

When not playing he is the most wonderful man in the world. Did I mention that I don't think that I have cooked dinner in months? Why? Because he does. And I hate cooking. But not to jump to his defense because that is all he really does.

Last night we had the fight again. Except this time I told him that I was moving his computer upstairs and finding someone to cuddle with, watch TV with and to have sex with since he wasn't going to do any of these things. His comeback was "you always get to do whatever you want to do." Then I informed him that the photography equipment that I bought I haven't been able to use cause the monitor is always on behind it and it comes out in the pictures. He had nothing to say there. I also told him that I might as well file for a divorce because at this rate I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life lonely. After while of stewing upstairs in bed alone He told me that it wasn't worth all this to play his game. So he swore off the game again. Only time will tell how long this will last.

Kinda like a crack addict swearing off crack. Watching them relapse is the worth thing in the world but condoning the behavior is even worse. Then we talked about the definition of insanity :

“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”.